His surname is (Fu). His parents gave him
the name (Buqi). When he grew up, his friend called him (Zijian).
宓
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It has the meaning of quiet, and it is
also one of the Chinese surnames.
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不
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It means negative.
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齊
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Being flat or neat is also one of the
Chinese surnames.
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子
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The original meaning is baby, and it is
also one of the Chinese surnames.
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賤
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Low status also means low price.
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He is one of the best 72 students of
Confucius.
About (Zijian). There is a story about him
in the history book.
The King of Lu State sent (Zijian) to
manage an important city.
This is the first time (Zijian) has
undertaken such an important task. So he went to visit a good friend named
(Yang). (Zijian) asks (Yang) to give herself some suggestions.
(Yang) said to (Zijian), I am as young as
you. So I can't tell you what to do. But I am very good at fishing. I can share
some of my fishing knowledge with you.
(Yang) said, I will meet two kinds of fish
when fishing.
The first type of fish lives in shallow
water. I just dropped the bait and hung the line, and these fish immediately
ate the bait and were caught. This type of fish tastes terrible.
The second type of fish lives in deeper
water. I put down the bait, and after hanging the line, I spent a lot of time
waiting for these fish to eat the bait before I could catch it. This type of
fish tastes delicious.
(Zijian) said to (Yang), thank you very
much.
When (Zijian) started his new job on the
first day, he had not yet reached the door of the office, and he saw many local
officials, who had already stood at the door respectfully and greeted him.
At this time (Zijian) remembered what
(Yang) said. He thought to himself that the first type of fish had appeared.
When (Zijian) took office for a few weeks,
he found that some people in the unit did their job seriously, instead of
spending time on socializing and flattering. At this time (Zijian) thought, the
second type of fish also made me discover.
So (Zijian) asks them humbly and reuses
them.
As a result, this place was managed very
well.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
How do you usually judge a person? Use this
person's speech or behavior or do you have other special observation points?
I hope this story will help you generate
some new gains.
他的姓是宓，他的父母給他取的名字是不齊，長大後朋友稱呼他的名字是子賤，
宓
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有安靜的意思，也是中國人的姓氏之一。
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不
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有否定的意思。
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齊
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平整或是整齊的意思，也是中國人的姓氏之一。
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子
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本意是嬰兒的意思，也是中國人的姓氏之一。
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賤
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地位卑下也有價格低廉的意思。
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他是孔子最優秀的72位學生之一。
關於（子賤）。歷史書上記載過一個關於他的故事。
魯國的國王派遣（子賤）去管理一座重要的城市。
這是（子賤）第一次承擔那麼重要的任務。因此他去拜訪自己一個名字叫做（陽晝）的好朋友。（子賤）請求（陽晝）給自已一些建議。
（陽晝）對（子賤）說，我跟你一樣的年輕。所以我無法告訴你該怎樣做。但我很會釣魚，我可以分享一些我釣魚的知識給你。
（陽晝）說，我在釣魚的時候會遇見兩種魚。
第一類的魚生活在水比較淺的地方。我剛放下魚餌，垂下釣線，這些魚就立刻吃掉魚餌被釣起來。這類的魚味道很糟糕。
第二種的魚生活在水比較深的地方，我放下魚餌，垂下釣線後，要花很多時間去等待這些魚吃掉魚餌，然後才釣得起來。這類魚吃起來的味道很美味。
（子賤）對（陽晝）說，非常謝謝。
當（子賤）開始新職務的第一天，他尚未走到辦公室的大門口，就看到很多當地的官員，已經態度很恭敬的站在門口迎接他。
這時候（子賤）想起（陽晝）說過的話。他心裡想第一種類的魚已經出現了。
當（子賤）就任幾週後，他發現單位中有一些人認真盡本份的工作，而不是花時間在社交與奉承。這時候（子賤）心裡想，第二種類的魚也讓我發現了。
所以（子賤)就虛心請教他們並且重用他們。
結果這個地方被（子賤）治理得很好。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你平常是如何評斷一個人呢？用這個人的言語行為還是你有其他特別的觀察重點呢？
希望這故事有助於你產生一些新的收穫。