You should stay focused and not be influenced by others.(不恥最後)
During the Warring States Period in China,
a famous thinker (Han Fei), he wrote a story.
There is a patriarch of a big family, his
name is (Zhao Xiangzi).
He wanted to learn the skills of riding a
horse, so he found a famous teacher.
A few months later, his study course ended.
He had a horse riding competition with his
teacher.
He lost the first game and he changed a
horse. He asked to play again.
In the second game he lost again and he
changed to a better horse. He asked the teacher to compete with him again.
He still lost the third game.
He was frustrated, he asked the teacher.
Why can't I win even once? Do you have
special riding skills that I don't know.
The teacher replied.
You already have all the skills I know.
What you need to improve now is your
mentality when riding a horse.
When you are riding a horse, you have to
focus on the horse you are riding,
When you and this horse feel like a whole.
This horse can exert its greatest strength.
In the three games just now,
When you are ahead, you are worried that I
will catch up with you.
When you are behind, you want to catch up
with me quickly.
Whether you are ahead or behind, your
attention is on me. This is why you lost the game.
You must focus on yourself throughout the
game.
This idiom. It is used to remind people
that no matter what they do, they should not feel ashamed or anxious because
they are behind others, but should focus on themselves.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
did you have after hearing this story.
In the experience of studying or working,
do you have the experience of feeling anxious or ashamed of being behind
others? How do you adjust your mentality so that you are not influenced by
others?
I hope this story will give you some new
gains.
此圖片來自百度百科
不恥最後(You should stay focused and not be
influenced by others.)
中國的戰國時代，著名的思想家(韓非)，他寫了一個故事。
有一個大家族的族長，他的名字叫做(趙襄子)。
他希望學習騎馬的技巧，他找了一位著名的老師。
幾個月後，他的學習課程結束。
他便與自已的老師進行了一場騎馬比賽。
第一場他輸了，他換了一匹馬。他請求再比賽一次。
第二場他又輸了，他換了一匹更好的馬。他請求老師再跟他比賽一次。
第三場比賽他還是輸了。
他很沮喪，他問老師。
為何我連一次都無法勝利，難道您有我不知道的特別的騎馬技巧。
老師回答。
你已經擁有我所會的全部技巧了。
你現在需要改進的地方，就是你騎馬時的心態。
你騎馬的時候，你要把注意力放在你所騎的這匹馬身上，
當你與這匹馬之間，感覺像是一個整體的時候。這匹馬才能夠發揮牠最大的實力。
剛剛的三場比賽中，
當你超前的時候，你很擔心我會追上你。
當你落後的時候，你很想要快點追上我。
不論您是超前還是落後，你的注意力都在我身上。這就是您輸了比賽的原因。
你整場比賽都必須把注意力都放在你自己身上。
這一句成語。被用來提醒人們，不論做甚麼事，都不要因為自已落後於別人而感到羞恥或焦慮，而是應該把注意力放在自已身上。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你在求學或是工作的經驗中，有因為落後別人而感到焦慮或羞恥的經驗呢?你要如何調整自己的心態，讓自己不要被他人所影響呢?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。