Hua Xin(華歆)
Hua Xin (157-232 A.D.)
His last name is (Hua), his parents gave
him the name (Xin), and his friends call him (Zi Yu) when he grows up. He was
born in Shandong Province, China.
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華 |
The meaning of flowers. The meaning of
gorgeous. It is also one of the Chinese surnames. |
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歆 |
The meaning of envy. |
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子 |
The meaning of a child. It is also one of
the Chinese surnames. |
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魚 |
The meaning of fish. It is also one of
the Chinese surnames. |
He is an outstanding statesman. There is a
story about him in history books.
He has a good friend named (Hua Xin), who
used to live together when they were young.
They farm together and read together.
One day, the two of them were weeding in
the vegetable garden together.
Suddenly, a piece of gold was dug from the
soil.
(Guan Ning) Continued weeding very calmly.
He bent down and picked up this piece of
gold and looked at it.
Then he threw this piece of gold far away.
Another day, the two of them sat on a straw
mat and read together.
Suddenly, there was a loud noise outside.
(Guan Ning) Continue reading very calmly.
He put down the book in his hand,
Then he ran to the street to see what had
happened.
When he came back to the room,
He was very excited to share what he saw
with (Guan Ning).
But (Guan Ning) took out a knife and cut a
mark in the middle of the straw mat where they were sitting together.
Guan Ning said to him. Let's break off our
friendship.
This is also an idiom, used to describe two
friends breaking up.
割席斷義(let us break off friendship)
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
did you have after hearing this story.
How do you evaluate the behavior and
mentality of these two people? How do you get along with friends who have
completely different personalities?
I hope this story will give you some new
gains.
華歆(西元157年-西元232年)
他的姓是(華)，他的父母給他取的名字是(歆)，長大後朋友稱呼他的名字是(子魚)，他出生地位於在中國的山東省。
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華 |
花的意思。華麗的意思。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
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歆 |
羨慕的意思。 |
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子 |
小孩子的意思。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
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魚 |
魚的意思。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
他是一位傑出的政治家。歷史書上記載過一個關於他的故事。
他有一個好朋友，名字叫做(華歆)，他們年輕的時候曾經住在一起。
他們一起耕作，一起讀書。
有一天，他們兩人一起在菜園裏鋤草。
突然，從泥土中挖到了一塊黃金。
(管寧)很平靜地繼續鋤草。
他卻彎下腰撿起這一塊黃金看了一下。
然後他把這一塊黃金往遠方丟去。
又有一天，他們兩個人坐在一塊草蓆上一起讀書。
突然，室外傳來一陣吵雜的聲音。
(管寧)很平靜的繼續讀書。
他卻放下手中的書，
然後他跑到街道上去看到底發生了甚麼事。
他再回來房間內的時候，
他很興奮地想要跟(管寧)分享他看到的甚麼。
但(管寧)卻拿出一把刀子並在他們一起坐的草蓆中間割了一道痕跡。
管寧對他說。我們兩個人絕交吧。
這也是一句成語，被用來形容兩個朋友絕交。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你如何評價這兩個人的行為與心態呢?你如何與自已個性完全不同的朋友相處呢?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
典故出自世說新語-德行篇