I will answer you based on your question.( 外舉不隱仇 內舉不避親)
In the Spring and Autumn Period of China,
the king of the Jin Kingdom was in conversation with an elderly minister. The
minister's name is (Qi Huangyang).
Said the king.
In our kingdom, there is now an important
county without a county head. Which one do you think is qualified for this
position?
(Qi Huangyang) answered.
I think among all ministers, (Xie hu) is
the most suitable for this position.
The king said in surprise.
Do you recommend (Xie hu)? Didn't you just
clashed with him a few days ago?
(Qi Huangyang) answered.
The question you just asked me is who can
be the governor of this important county; you are not asking who I don’t like.
The king nodded.
The king arranged for (Xie hu) to take up
this position.
A year later, the king saw that he managed
the county very well.
A few more months passed. The king asked
((Qi Huangyang) a question again.
Said the king.
In our kingdom, there is now an important
military position. Which one do you think can be qualified for this position?
(Qi Huangyang) answered.
I think (Qi Wu) among all ministers is the
most suitable for this position.
The king said in surprise.
Do you recommend (Qi Wu)? The person you
recommend is your son, right?
(Qi Huangyang) answered.
The question you just asked me is who can
be qualified for this important military position; you are not asking me who my
son is.
The king nodded.
The king arranged for (Qi Wu) to take up
this position. After another year, (Qi Wu) played his talents in this position.
He did this job very well.
This idiom is used to describe a person who
is very fair and unselfish.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
did you have after hearing this story.
If you are the management of the company,
will you affect your attitude towards a person due to personal emotional
factors? How do you discover the advantages of the person you hate?
I hope this story will give you some new gains.
外舉不隱仇 內舉不避親 (I will answer you based on your
question.)
中國的春秋時代，晉王國的國王與一位年紀很大的大臣正在對談。這個大臣的名字叫做(祁黃羊)。
國王說。
我們王國內，現在有一個重要的縣沒有縣長，你認為哪一位可以勝任這個職位呢。
(祁黃羊)回答。
我認為所有大臣中，(解狐)是最適合這個職位的。
國王很訝異地說。
你推薦(解狐)嗎?你不是前幾天才與他發生過衝突?
(祁黃羊)回答。
你剛問我的問題是誰可以勝任這個重要的縣的縣長；你並不是問我不喜歡誰。
國王點點頭。
國王便安排(解狐)出任這個職位。
一年後，國王看見他果然把這個縣治理的很好。
又過了幾個月。國王再次請教((祁黃羊)一個問題。
國王說。
我們王國內，現在有一個重要的軍事職位，你認為哪一位可以勝任這個職位呢。
(祁黃羊)回答。
我認為所有大臣中，(祁午)這個人是最適合這個職位的。
國王很訝異地說。
你推薦(祁午)嗎?你推薦的人是你的兒子對嗎?
(祁黃羊)回答。
你剛問我的問題是誰可以勝任這個重要的軍職；你並不是問我誰是我的兒子。
國王點點頭。
國王便安排(祁午)出任這個職位。又經過了一年，(祁午)在這個職位上發揮他的才能。他把這個工作做得很好。
這句成語被用來形容一個人非常的公正，而且沒有私心。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你如果是公司的管理階層，你會因為個人的情感因素，影響你對一個人的態度嗎?你如何去發現你討厭的人的優點呢?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為呂氏春秋-孟春紀-去私