He doesn't comment on others easily(皮裡陽秋)
During the Eastern Jin Dynasty in China,
there was a famous minister whose name was (Chu Jiye).
One of his stories is recorded in history
books.
He exudes a noble temperament.
His daughter later became a queen.
In order to maintain his independence, he
does not join various groups.
He voluntarily asked for a transfer to
leave the capital and stay away from the center of power.
He has a good friend called (Huan Maolun)
once said to him.
You are a sincere person, you never comment
on others, you put your personal behavior evaluation in your own heart.
You will not flatter or despise others.
I admire you very much.
The meaning of this idiom is a metaphor for
a person not easily commenting on others.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
did you have after hearing this story.
Do you easily comment on others? What are
your psychological feelings when you are commented on?
I hope this story will give you some new
gains.
皮裡陽秋(He doesn't comment on others easily)
中國的東晉時代，有一個著名的大臣，他的名字叫(褚季野)。
歷史書上記載了他的一個故事。
他散發出一種高貴的氣質。
他的女兒後來成為皇后。
他為了保持自已的獨立性，他不加入各個團體。
他主動要求調職離開首都遠離權力中心。
他有一個好朋友叫做(桓茂倫)有一次對他說。
你是一個敦厚的人，你從來不評論他人，你把對個人的行為評價放在自已的心裡。
你不會奉承他人也不輕視他人。
我很敬佩你。
這一句成語的意思是比喻一個人不輕易的評論他人。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你會輕易的評論他人嗎?你被人評論時你的心理感受是甚麼呢?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
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