You don't sarcasm other people(冷言冷語)
There was a very famous monk in the Song
Dynasty of China, his name was (Xu Tang Zhi Yu).
For a while, he served as the abbot of a
temple in Yunhuang Mountain in Zhejiang Province.
His students recorded his situation when he
first arrived at this temple.
He stood at the door, looking at the gate
of the temple, he said to the students.
All of you are learning about Buddhism from
me.
You must remember that comprehending the
knowledge of Buddhism is like walking through this door. You can have a deep
experience in an instant.
You cannot understand it in an analytical
way, you have to take actual action and feel it with your heart.
He said to the students after entering the
temple.
Those of us who are spiritual practitioners
do not have a fixed residence at the beginning, sometimes stay and sometimes
leave.
In the beginning, there was no need for a
fixed place to practice.
But if we have the opportunity, we can stay
in one place for a long time, which is also a good thing.
If we want to stay in a temple for a long
time, we must first observe some temples near the temple.
Remember, a good neighbor is more important
than a good place to live.
Good neighbors will be our help and
admonishment.
Bad neighbors will harm us, bully us, and
cause our troubles. You must always keep these words in your heart.
We must treat people who practice with
these people in the same temple with integrity and kindness.
We are like a family.
We should not slander others secretly or
talk to others in a sarcastic tone.
This idiom is used to describe a person
with sarcasm. .
Dear friend, how do you feel or think after
hearing this story.
Which one do you think is more important
than a good neighbor or an expensive house? Will you pay attention to and
review the way you talk to others?
I hope this story will give you some new
gains.
冷言冷語(You don't sarcasm other people)
中國的宋王朝有一個很有名的和尚，他的名字叫做(虛堂智愚)。
他曾經有一段時間，在浙江省的雲黃山、擔任一座寺廟的住持。
他的學生們，紀錄了他剛到這座寺廟時說的一些話。
他站在門口，看著寺廟的大門，他對學生們說。
你們所有人都正在跟我學習佛教的學問。
你們必須記得，領悟佛教的學問就好像走進這一扇大門一樣。可以在一瞬間就有深刻的體會。
你們無法靠分析的方式去理解，你們必須要實際採取行動並且用心去感受。
他走進這座寺廟後對學生說。
我們這些一個修行的人一開始沒有固定的住所，有時候停留有時候離開，
一開始沒有固定一個地方修行的必要。
但如果有機會我們可以在一個地方長久待著，這也是一件挺好的事。
我們如果要長期待在一座寺廟內，我們要先觀察這座寺廟附近的一些廟宇們。
您們要記得，一個好鄰居比一個好的居住地更重要。
好的鄰居會成為我們的幫助與鑑誡。
壞鄰居則會損害我們，欺凌我們，造成我們的困擾。這些話你們要永遠記在心裡。
我們要用正直與善意去對待與同一座寺廟內這些一起修行的人。
我們就像是一個家庭。
我們別暗中去中傷別人或是用諷刺的語氣與他人對話。
這句成語被用來形容一個人語帶諷刺。。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的感受或有怎樣的想法呢。
你認為好的鄰居與昂貴的房子那一個比較重要呢?你會留意並且檢討自已與他人對談的方式嗎?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為虛堂和尚語錄-卷二-婺州雲黃山寶林禪寺語錄