He came up with and used countless ways and
strategies(千方百計)
The Song Dynasty in China was divided into
two stages. The first stage was the Northern Song Dynasty (960-1127 AD). The
second stage is the Southern Song Dynasty. (1127 AD - 1279 AD).
The name of the third king of the Southern
Song Dynasty was (Zhao Dun).
He was made crown prince at the age of 24
and his father retired when he was 42 and passed on the throne to him.
According to historical records.
His personality is cowardly.
His wife has a fierce personality.
He is afraid of his wife, he dare not
disobey his wife.
The queen didn't like his father, so she
spoke ill of his father every day.
The queen prevented him from seeing his
father.
when he was 46 years old.
Many ministers were angry because he had
not followed the tradition to see his father for a long time.
The ministers reminded him five times in a
row, but he made many excuses, and he insisted not to see his father.
His behavior aroused the anger of the
ministers. At that time, there was a famous minister named Peng Guinian.
He wrote a letter of advice to him. '
There is a paragraph in this letter as
follows.
Many of our old and senior ministers keep
advising you that you should return to peace with your father.
You should be filial to your father, but
you don't listen.
Maybe it's because you didn't like the way
we expressed it, so you didn't take our advice.
But it's more likely that the queen has
used countless words and tricks to brainwash you, so that you can't listen to
our advice.
On the sixth time these ministers reminded
him, he finally went to see his father.
Their relationship is so bad.
When he was 47, his father wanted to see
him before he died, but he didn't go.
This idiom means to try or exhaust all
means or strategies.
Dear friends, what inspiration or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
What qualities do you think a good wife
should have? Will your principles and morals change because of your spouse's
disapproval?
I hope this story will give you something
new to gain.
千方百計(He came up with and used countless
ways and strategies)
中國的宋王朝有分兩個階段。第一個階段是北宋王朝(西元960-西元1127年)。第二個階段是南宋王朝。(西元1127年-西元1279年)。
南宋王朝的第三個國王名字叫做(趙惇)。
他在24歲的時候被立為王儲，他的父親在他42歲的時候退休並且把王位傳給他。
根據歷史書的記載。
他的個性懦弱。
他的妻子個性兇悍。
他很怕老婆，他不敢違抗他的妻子。
皇后不喜歡他的父親，所以就每天說他父親的壞話。
皇后阻止他去看他的父親。
在他46歲時。
因為他已經很久沒有遵循傳統去看他的父親，所以很多大臣都很生氣。
這些大臣連續提醒他五次，但他他找了許多藉口，他堅持不去看他的父親。
他這個行為引起了眾大臣的憤怒，當時有一個著名的大臣叫做彭龜年。
他便寫了一封勸告的信給他。'
這封信中有一段如下。
我們許多年老資深的大臣都不停地勸告你，你應該跟你的父親回復和睦。
你應該孝順你的父親，但是你卻都聽不進去。
或許這是因為你不喜歡我們表達的方式，所以你沒有去聽取我們的建議。
但是更有可能是因為皇后用了數不清的說詞與計謀將你洗腦，讓你聽不進去我們的勸告阿。
在這些大臣提醒他第六次的時候，他終於去看他的父親。
他們的感情就是如此的不好。
在他47歲時，他的父親臨死之前想見他，但他最終沒有去。
這句成語的意思是想盡或用盡一切辦法或是計謀。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你認為一個好的妻子應該具備怎樣的品德呢?你的原則與道德會因為配偶的反對而改變嗎?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為止堂集-卷三-宋-彭龜年-論小人疑間兩宮乞車駕過宮面質疏
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