He eats breakfast in bed(晨炊蓐食)
The name of the founding king of the Han
Dynasty in Chinese history was (Liu Bang). And the name of the most important
general who assisted him in founding the Han Dynasty was (Han Xin).
The story of (Han Xin)'s life is very
wonderful, and one of his stories is recorded in history.
His family background is not good, he was
born in a poor family, he has no connections, and he has no business capital,
he lives with his mother.
After his mother passed away, he borrowed
money from some of his friends to hold her funeral. At the funeral, when he
honored his mother, he said.
My mother, I have no money now, I can only
hold this poor funeral for you and bury you in this very ordinary place.
I am determined to become a great general.
After I become a great general and have great influence and a lot of money, I
will buy the best land in the highest place in my hometown and build a new tomb
for you.
When his friends heard his words, they
thought he was too unrealistic and he was talking big.
He was so poor that he couldn't even rent a
place to live, so he had to live with his friends.
One of his good friends is the director of
the police station in the village where they live.
He stayed at this friend's house for a
while. He lived for several months.
Every morning after breakfast, he goes out
to hang out, and when it is dinner time, he comes back to eat and then sleep,
so this good friend's wife doesn't like him.
The good friend's wife wanted to drive him
away.
One morning, after the wife of this good
friend cooked breakfast, she took it back to her room to eat.
Then the wife of this good friend said to
him.
Starting today, we will no longer provide
you with breakfast, nor will we provide you with dinner.
You are not welcome in our family.
He felt ashamed and angry because of the
shame. He left this good friend's house that day.
This idiom means that he eats breakfast in
bed.
Dear friend, what are your feelings or
thoughts after hearing this story?
If you were his friend, would you help him?
If you were him, how would you feel in your heart?
I hope this story can give you some new
harvest.
晨炊蓐食(He eats breakfast in bed)
中國歷史上的漢王朝開國國王的名字叫做(劉邦)。而協助他創建漢王朝的最重要的將軍的名字是(韓信)。
(韓信)一生的故事非常的精采,歷史上記載了一個他的故事。
他的家世並不好,他出生在一個貧窮的家庭,他本身也沒有人脈,他也沒有做生意的資本,他與他的母親生活在一起。
他的母親過世之後,他跟他的一些朋友借錢為他的母親舉辦葬禮。在葬禮上,他祭奠他的母親的時候,他說。
我的母親啊,我現在沒有錢,我只能為妳舉辦這很寒酸的葬禮並且安葬在這個很普通的地方。
我立志要成為一個偉大的將軍,等我成為一個偉大的將軍並且擁有巨大的勢力與很多金錢後,我會在家鄉最高的地方買一塊最好的土地然後蓋一座新的墳墓給妳。
他的朋友聽到他的這些話都認為他太不切實際,他說的是大話。
他實在太窮了,他連住的地方都租不起,他只好去住他的朋友家。
他的好朋友之一,是他們所住的村子的派出所所長。
他有一陣子到這個朋友家住。他住了好幾個月。
每天早上吃完早餐就出門閒晃,一到晚餐時間就回來吃飯然後睡覺,所以這個好朋友的妻子不喜歡他。
這個好朋友的妻子想要把他趕走。
有一天的早晨,這個好朋友的妻子煮好早餐後就把早餐端回自已的房間吃。
然後這個好朋友的妻子對他說。
從今天開始,我們不會再提供你早餐,也不提供你晚餐。
我們家不歡迎你。
他感覺羞愧,又因為羞愧而覺得憤怒。他當天就離開這個好朋友的家。
這一句成語的意思是他在床上吃早餐。
親愛的朋友,你聽完這個故事有怎樣的感受或有怎樣的想法呢。
你如果是他的朋友,你會接濟他嗎?你如果是他,你的內心會有怎樣的感受呢?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為史記-淮陰侯列傳