You'll be a very, very noble person(貴不可言)
The name of the founding king of the Han
Dynasty was (Liu Bang). The Han Kingdom he led defeated all other kingdoms in
the chaotic generation after the fall of the Qin Dynasty.
History books record a story about him.
When he was in his 30s, he served as the
director of a city's police station.
One day, the mayor of the city held a
banquet, and the name of the guest of honor at the banquet was Lu Wen. Lu Wen
is very rich and powerful.
This is a grand banquet, and every guest
who comes to attend must prepare a gift money.
The person with the larger gift money will
be arranged to sit closer to the guest of honor.
He doesn't usually have the habit of
saving, and he spends all his salary on entertaining his good friends.
He wanted to be at the party, and he wanted
to get to know the powerful and rich guest of honor.
When he arrived at the banquet venue, he
saw that the person responsible for collecting the gift money was his colleague
from the city government, and this colleague had a very good friendship with
him.
He did something very bold.
He took out his business card and wrote on
it that I would give a gift money of 10,000 yuan.
This was a very huge amount at the time.
The colleague responsible for collecting
the gift money knew that Liu Bang had no money, but the colleague still handed
over this business card to (Lu Wen).
After seeing this business card, Lu Wen
thought to himself.
To participate in this banquet, a gift
money of 1000 is generally given.
This person actually gave 10,000 yuan, ten
times more than the average person.
I had to meet him at the gate myself.
(Lv Wen) walked to the gate of the banquet
hall to meet him, (Lv Wen) pulled him to sit beside him.
Colleagues from other municipal governments
who saw this situation were very puzzled and curious. These colleagues did not
know why (Lu Wen) was so friendly to him.
During this banquet, he was very generous,
and he had a very pleasant conversation with (Lu Wen).
After the banquet, (Lu Wen) said to him.
After I observed your appearance and
behavior and chatted with you, I think you are a person who will have great
achievements in the future. I have a daughter who is about the same age as you.
I want to marry my daughter to you.
Because of his bold move and the help of
his good friend, after he attended the banquet, he got a powerful and rich
father-in-law and a wife.
After the two of them got married, a few
years later, they had two children.
According to the records of history books.
One day, his wife was farming in the field
with their two children.
An old man passed the field.
The old man said to his wife.
I've walked a long way and I'm thirsty, can
you offer me some water.
His wife not only gave the old man water,
but also entertained the old man for a meal.
The old man is very grateful to his wife.
The old man said to his wife.
I am proficient in physiognomy, according
to my observation, I think your family will become a very prominent nobleman in
the future.
The old man said to Liu Bang.
Your face is so strange, I have never seen
such a face.
I think you'll be a nobleman's nobleman.
This idiom is used to describe a person's
status is very, very noble.
Dear friend, what kind of inspiration or
thoughts do you have after hearing this story?
How did your parents meet in the first
place? What do you think is the most important condition for a good marriage
partner?
I hope this story can give you something to
gain.
貴不可言(You'll be a very, very noble person)
漢王朝開國國王的名字叫做(劉邦)。他所領導的漢王國在秦王朝滅亡後的混亂世代中打敗其他所有王國。
歷史書上記載了一個關於他的故事。
他在30幾歲的時候，擔任一座城市的派出所所長。
有一天，這座城市的市長舉辦一場宴會，這場宴會的主賓的名字是呂文。呂文非常有錢又很有權。
這是一場盛大的宴會，每個來參加的賓客都要準備一份禮金。
禮金金額愈大的人，就會被安排坐到愈靠近主賓的位置。
他平常沒有儲蓄的習慣，他把薪水都拿去招待自己的好朋友吃喝。
他想參加這場宴會，而且他想要認識這個有權有錢的主賓。
他到了宴會會場，他看到負責收取禮金的人是他市政府的同事，這個同事跟他的交情非常好。
他做了一件很大膽的事。
他拿出自已的名片，然後在名片上寫上我將會送10000元的禮金。
這在當時是一個非常巨大的金額。
負責收取禮金的這個同事知道劉邦沒有錢，但是這個同事還是把這張名片轉交給(呂文)。
呂文看到這張名片後，他心裡想。
參加這場宴會，一般會給1000的禮金。
這個人竟然給了10000元，超過一般人的十倍。
我必須親自到大門口迎接他。
(呂文)走到宴會廳的大門口迎接他，(呂文)把他拉到自已的身邊坐下。
看見這個情況的其他市政府的同事都覺得非常疑惑與好奇，這些同事不知道為何(呂文)為何會對他特別的友善。
這場宴會中，他表現得很大方，他與(呂文)對談的非常愉快。
酒宴結束後，(呂文)對他說。
我觀察你的外貌與行為並且跟你聊天之後，我認為你是一個在未來會有非常大的成就的人，我有一個女兒，她的年齡跟你差不多，我想要把我的女兒嫁給你。
他因為他的大膽的舉動，還有他的好朋友的幫忙，他參加完這場宴會後，他得到了一個有權有錢的岳父與一個妻子。
他們兩個人結婚之後，過了幾年，他們生了兩個小孩。
根據歷史書的記載。
有一天，他的妻子帶著兩個小孩在田裡種田。
有一個老人經過這塊田。
這個老人對他的妻子說。
我走了很遠的路，我很渴，你可以招待我喝點水嗎。
他的妻子不但給這個老人喝水，還招待這個老人吃了飯。
這個老人很感謝他的妻子。
這個老人對他的妻子說。
我精通面相學，根據我的觀察，我認為你的家庭之後成為會成為一個很顯赫的貴族。
這個老人對劉邦說。
你的面貌太奇特了，我從來沒有看過這種面相。
我認為你會成為一個貴族中的貴族。
這句成語被用來形容一個人的身分非常非常的尊貴。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或是想法呢。
你的父親母親起初如何認識的呢?你認為一個好的結婚對象最重要的條件為何呢?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一點收穫。
出處為史記-高祖本紀