Guo Jie (郭解)(BC?-BC?)
His surname is Guo, his parents called him
Jie and his friends called him Weng Bo when he was growing up. He was born in
Henan Province, China.
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郭 |
The meaning of the outer city wall. It is
also one of the Chinese surnames. |
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解 |
Anatomy means. Untie the meaning. |
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翁 |
The meaning of old man. It is also one of
the Chinese surnames. |
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伯 |
It means the eldest of several brothers. It is also one of the Chinese surnames. |
He was a commoner whose story is written in
the history books because of his simple and humble character and his moral and
just actions.
One day he received a message.
His nephew was going to a banquet. During
the banquet, his nephew had a conflict with others because he kept forcing
others to drink, so his nephew was killed in the fight.
His sister said to him.
You should avenge your nephew.
He replied.
I will not avenge your son, I have
considered the matter carefully.
Because your son forced others to drink,
your son does not respect others and forces others to drink, so your son was
killed.
I am very sad that this has happened, but I
think your son bears the greatest responsibility for this tragedy.
In the town where he lived, a young man
treated him very rudely.
Friends around him said to him
You are someone we all respect and this
young man despises you, we hit him.
He blocks these friends, he said to his
friend.
You shouldn't try to beat him up.
Because in his eyes my moral cultivation is
not high enough, so he doesn't respect me.
I should check myself.
There were two people in Luoyang City who
were hostile to each other because of a misunderstanding. After he mediated,
they reconciled.
He did not emphasise to the public that the
reconciliation between the two men was his own achievement. On the contrary, he
asked the two men to conceal the fact that he had intervened in the mediation.
He maintained a respectful demeanour and
assiduously helped many to mediate disputes without taking credit.
Dear friend, what kind of inspiration or
thought do you have after hearing this story?
If you were his sister, would you forgive
his decision? How would you react if someone insulted you?
I hope this story can give you a new
harvest.
郭解(Guo Jie )(西元前?-西元前?）
他的姓是郭，他的父母給他取的名字是解，長大後朋友稱呼他的名字是翁伯，他出生地位於在中國的河南省。
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郭 |
外城牆的意思。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
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解 |
解剖的意思。解開的意思。 |
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翁 |
老先生的意思。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
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伯 |
意思是幾個兄弟中，年紀最大的那一位。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
他是一個平民，因為他的性格簡單而且謙遜而且他的行為符合道德與正義，所以他的故事被寫入歷史書。
有一天，他收到一個消息。
他的外甥去參加一場宴會，在宴會中，他的外甥由於一直勉強別人喝酒，因此與別人發生衝突，所以他的外甥在爭吵中被殺死了。
他的姊姊對他說。
你應該為你的外甥報仇。
他回答。
我不會為你的兒子報仇，這件事情我已經仔細的調查過了。
因為你的兒子一直勉強別人喝酒，你的兒子不尊重別人而且脅迫別人一定要喝酒，所以你的兒子才會被殺。
發生這件事情我感到非常的傷心，但我認為會發生這件悲劇，你的兒子要負最大的責任。
他住的城市中，有一個年輕人對他的態度非常不禮貌。
他身邊的朋友對他說。
你是我們大家所尊敬的人而這個年輕人竟然輕視你，我們揍他。
他阻止了這些朋友。他對他的朋友說。
你們不應該想揍他。
因為在他的眼中，我的道德修養不夠高，所以他才不尊敬我。
我應該檢討自已。
洛陽城中有兩個人因為誤會所以彼此敵對，經過他的調解後這兩個人和解了。
他沒有對外強調這兩個人的和解是自己的功勞，相反的，他要求這兩個人隱瞞他曾經介入調停。
他保持著恭敬的態度，他熱心地去協助許多人調停糾紛而且不居功。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你如果是他的姐姐，你會諒解他的決定嗎?如果有人輕視你，你會有甚麼反應呢?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為史記遊俠-列傳