Sui Kua (眭夸)(AD?-AD?)
His surname is (Sui), his parents gave him
the name (Kua), and he was born in Hebei Province, China.
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眭 |
It means to look deeply. It is also one
of the Chinese surnames. |
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夸 |
It means luxury. It means exaggerated. It
is also a Chinese surname. |
He was a famous person during the Northern
and Southern Dynasties.
There is a story about him in the history
books.
His father died when he was 20 years old
and he was very sad.
A few months later, his friends were
surprised to see that his hair and beard had turned from black to white.
After his father died, he often thought
about his father, and he cried when he thought about his father. When he cries,
everyone who hears him cry is moved to tears by his sincere feelings.
He has a good friend whom he has known
since childhood. The name of this good friend is (Cui Hao). This good friend's
thoughts and opinions are almost the same as his, so the two of them have a
very good relationship.
Cui Hao recommended him to work in the
central government of the Northern Wei Kingdom, but he didn't like Cui Hao's
lifestyle, so he refused and returned to live in the countryside.
One day, he heard the news of Cui Hao's
death from the capital, and he was very sad.
He put on mourning clothes and said to his
neighbour
My best friend has died, and no one in this
world can fully accept me anymore.
He likes to drink, he likes to read, he
often goes hiking and he likes to live in the country.
He is not bound by worldly conventions and
does not follow the values of ordinary people.
One day his neighbour asked him.
You have great talents, but why don't you
become an official in the central government?
As a government official, you will have a
very generous salary and a high social status. Why do you want to live in this
remote area?
He smiled and did not answer his neighbour.
He has a very good relationship with his
father-in-law, and his relationship with his father-in-law is like that of
brothers.
He was 75 when he died. He had no children,
but many people came to his funeral.
Many of his friends and admirers came to
his funeral to mourn him.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
Are you living the life you want now? How
many people do you think will attend your funeral?
I hope this story can give you some new
insights.
眭夸(Sui Kua) (西元?年-西元?年)
他的姓是(眭)，他的父母給他取的名字是(夸)，他出生地位於在中國的河北省。
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眭 |
意思是一個人深深地注視著。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
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夸 |
意思是奢侈的意思。意思是浮誇的意思。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
他是南北王朝時代一個名人。
歷史書上記載了一個關於他的故事。
他的父親在他20歲的時候過世了，他非常的悲痛。
幾個月後，他的朋友們驚訝地看見，他的頭髮鬍鬚竟然全部都從原本的黑色變成白色。
在他的父親過世後，他時常會想到他的父親，他想到他的父親的時候他就會痛哭。當他哭的時候，每個聽到他哭泣的人都會被他真摯的情感所感動到因此流下眼淚。
他有一個從小就認識的好朋友，這個好朋友的名字叫做(崔浩)，這個好朋友的想法與觀點都幾乎跟他一樣，因此他們兩個人的感情非常好。
崔浩推薦他進入北魏王國的中央政府工作，但他不喜歡崔浩的生活方式所以他拒絕了，他回到鄉下生活。
有一天，他聽到首都傳來崔浩的死訊，他非常的悲傷。
他穿上喪服，他對他的鄰居說。
我最好的朋友已經過世了，這世界上已經再也沒有人可以完全的接受我了。
他喜歡喝酒，他熱愛讀書，他常常去爬山，他很享受住在鄉下的生活。
他不受世俗的約定所束縛，他不遵循一般人的價值標準。
有一天，他的鄰居問他。
你有很高的才能，但是你為何不到中央政府中擔任政府官員呢?
你如果擔任政府官員你就會有很豐厚的薪水，你還會有很高的社會地位，你為何要住在這個偏遠的鄉下呢?
他笑了笑，他沒有回答他的鄰居。
他與他的岳父的感情非常好，他與他的岳父的感情像是親兄弟一樣。
他死的時候年紀75歲，他沒有小孩，但是來參加他的葬禮的人非常非常多，
很多他的朋友與仰慕他的人來到他的葬禮上哀悼他。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你現在過著自己想要的生活方式嗎?你認為你的葬禮會有多少人來參加呢?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為魏書-列傳卷90-眭夸傳
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