He treats others with a tolerant attitude(情恕理遣)
In the Western Jin Dynasty of China, there
was a famous official whose surname was Wei Jie.
There is a story about him recorded in the
history books.
He was often sick and his health was very
poor, so he stayed at home almost all the time.
He is very intelligent, he likes Taoist
thought very much, and he has his own unique understanding and insights into
Taoist thought.
He was a very famous expert on Taoist
thought in his time.
His family was a famous aristocratic family
in the Western Jin Dynasty.
There were several famous aristocratic
families in the Western Jin Dynasty, one of the most powerful was the Wang
family.
There is a very outstanding young man in
the Wang family. This young man's name is (Wang Cheng).
Wang Cheng and Wei Jie are good friends,
and Wang Cheng likes to chat with Wei Jie.
Wang Cheng once said this to Wei Jie.
I should be the most famous among the young
people of my generation in the Western Jin Dynasty.
Everyone praises my knowledge and talents,
but every time I listen to you speak, I feel that your knowledge and talents
are far superior to mine.
Wei Jie is never angry and always has a
slight smile on his face.
His friend told him.
Once someone insulted him and his friend
was very angry, but his expression remained the same with a slight smile.
asked his friend.
How can you remain calm when others offend
you?
He replied calmly to his friend.
If someone makes a serious mistake, I am
ready to forgive them because I understand that each of us is imperfect.
If someone accidentally offends me, I
understand that any of us can accidentally offend someone, so I adjust my own
anger.
This idiom is used to describe a person who
treats others with a tolerant attitude.
Dear friend, what inspirations or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
Do you get angry when others offend you?
Are you a person who always reminds yourself to keep your mood calm?
I hope this story can give you some new
insights.
情恕理遣(He treats others with a tolerant
attitude)
中國的西晉王朝，有一個著名的官員，他的命字叫做(衛玠)。
歷史書上記載了一個他的故事。
他常常生病，他的身體很不好，所以他幾乎都待在家裡。
他非常的聰明，他很喜歡道家的思想，他對於道家的思想有自己獨特的領悟與見解。
他是他們那個時代一個非常著名的研究道家思想的專家。
他的家族是西晉王朝一個著名的貴族世家。
西晉王朝有好幾個著名的貴族世家，其中有一個勢力最大的，是王姓世家。
王姓世家中有一個很優秀的年輕人，這個年輕人的名字叫做(王澄)。
王澄和衛玠是好朋友，王澄很喜歡跟衛玠聊天。
王澄曾經這樣對衛玠說。
我應該是西晉王朝中，與我同輩的年輕人中最著名的一位。
大家都讚美我的知識與才能，但是我每次聽你說話，我都覺得你的知識與才能都超過我太多太多。
衛玠從來都不生氣，他的臉上永遠都保持淺淺的微笑。
他的朋友對他說。
有一次，有一個人冒犯他，他的朋友很生氣，但是他的表情還是一樣保持淡淡的微笑。
他的朋友問。
你面對別人的冒犯，你為何還可以保持平靜呢?
他很平靜地回他的朋友。
如果別人犯了嚴重的錯，因為我理解到我們每個人都是不完美的，所以我願意寬恕他。
如果別人不小心冒犯了我，因為我理解到我們每個人都有可能不小心冒犯別人，所以我會調整我自己的生氣的情緒。
這句成語被用來形容一個人用寬容的態度對待他人。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你是否會因為別人冒犯你而生氣呢?你是一個會時刻提醒自己要保持心情平靜的人嗎?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為晉書-卷36-衛玠
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