Ruan Fu(阮孚) (278 AD -
326 AD)
His surname is Ruan. His parents gave him
the name Fu. As he grew up, his friends called him Yaoji. He was born in Henan
Province, China.
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阮 |
The name of a kingdom in ancient China.
The name of an ancient Chinese stringed instrument. It is also one of the
Chinese surnames. |
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孚 |
It means to hatch. It means trust. |
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遙 |
It means far away. |
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集 |
It means to gather. It means collecting. |
He was a famous minister in the Eastern Jin
Dynasty of China and his story is recorded in history books.
He is of mixed race.
His father is a famous musician.
His father's personality is one of freedom,
and his father does not like to be restricted by social norms.
His father's sister had a maid. This maid
is a woman from the Xianbei Kingdom.
His father fell passionately in love with
this maid and insisted on marrying her mother as his concubine.
His father's behaviour drew criticism from
everyone at the time, but his father said this to those who criticised him
This woman is already carrying my child. I
am responsible for her and the child in her womb, so I must marry her.
As he grew up, his personality was very
similar to his father's. Like his father, he liked to drink Chinese rice wine.
Like his father, he followed his heart and did what he wanted to do.
He has seven good friends, and these seven
good friends often get together.
One day he was drinking and talking with
his seven good friends, and he said to one of his good friends.
You have a serious personality and a very
methodical way of doing things. You are like a solid rock to me.
I think you live too hard and you should
learn to relax a little.
The good friend replied seriously after
hearing what he had said.
Among us, except for me, you all seek
freedom and don't like to be restricted. Your way of life makes everyone feel
special.
Compared to you, I look vulgar and boring,
but I don't want to change, I like who I am now.
Dear friend, what inspirations or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
Do you like your own personality? Is your
behaviour and personality more like your mother's or your father's?
I hope this story can give you some new
insights.
阮孚(Ruan Fu )(西元278年-西元326年)
他的姓是阮，他的父母給他取的名字是孚，長大後朋友稱呼他的名字是遙集，他出生地位於在中國的河南省。
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阮 |
古代中國一個王國的名字。古代中國的一種弦樂器的名字。也是中國人的姓氏之一。 |
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孚 |
意思是孵化的意思。意思是信任的意思。 |
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遙 |
意思是遙遠的意思。 |
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集 |
意思是聚集的意思。意思是集合的意思。 |
他是中國東晉王朝一個著名的大臣，歷史書上記載了一個他的故事。
他是一個混血兒。
他的父親是一個著名的音樂家。
他的父親個性追求自由，他的父親不喜歡被社會規範所拘束。
他的父親的姐姐有一個婢女。這個婢女是一個鮮卑王國的女子。
他的父親與這個婢女陷入熱戀，他的父親堅持要娶她的母親為妾。
他的父親的行為在當時引起了眾人的責難，但是他的父親對這些責難他的人說。
這個女子的肚子裡面已經有我的孩子了，我對她與她肚子裡的孩子有責任，所以我一定要娶她。
他長大後，他的個性跟他的父親很像，他也跟他的父親一樣很喜歡喝中國米酒，他跟他的父親一樣追隨自己的內心做自己想做的事。
他有七個好朋友，他們這七個好朋友常常聚在一起。
有一天，他與他這七個好朋友一起喝酒聊天時。他對其中一個好朋友說。
你的個性很嚴肅，你做事的方式很有條理。你給我的感覺就像是一塊堅硬的石頭。
我覺得你活得太辛苦了，你應該學習放鬆一點。
這個好朋友聽到他的話後很嚴肅的回答他。
我們這幾個人，除了我以外，你們的個性都追求自由與不喜歡受到約束，你們的生活方式讓大家都覺得很特別。
與你們相比我顯得的庸俗與無趣，但我不想改變，我喜歡我現在的樣子。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你喜歡自己的個性嗎?你的行為與個性比較像你的母親還是你的父親呢?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為資治通鑑-卷93-肅宗明皇帝下咸和元年（丙戌，公元三二六年）
https://zh.wikisource.org/wiki/%E8%B3%87%E6%B2%BB%E9%80%9A%E9%91%91/%E5%8D%B7093
出處為晉書-卷49-阮孚傳
https://zh.wikisource.org/zh-hant/%E6%99%89%E6%9B%B8/%E5%8D%B7049
出處為世說新語-仁誕-15條
https://ctext.org/shi-shuo-xin-yu/ren-dan/zh