We should resolve the hatred and disputes
among ourselves, and we should not increase the hatred and disputes between
ourselves and others.(冤家宜解不宜結)
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In the Ming Dynasty of China, there was a
famous poet who was also a famous calligrapher and painter. His name is Tang
Yin.
He once wrote a poem expressing his
thoughts on life.
There are only 56 Chinese characters in
this poem, but this poem has a very deep meaning.
The general meaning of this poem is as
follows.
Everything we encounter in life has God's
purpose.
We should not think that our lives will go
according to our own plans and motives.
As long as we have enough to eat every day,
we should be satisfied.
When our lives are going well, we should be
careful to be modest and restrained.
We should not worry about how to satisfy
our desires every day.
We should always remember not to harm
others for our own interests.
We should resolve hatred and disputes
between ourselves and others.
We should not increase conflicts and
disputes between ourselves and others.
We should see our own shortcomings and
blind spots instead of only seeing the places where others offend us.
The meaning of this saying is that we
should resolve the hatred and disputes between ourselves and not increase the
hatred and disputes between ourselves and others.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
Can you forgive your enemies and make peace
with them? Are you willing to take the initiative to resolve hatred and
disputes between you and others?
I hope this story can give you some new
insights.
冤家宜解不宜結(We should resolve the hatred and
disputes among ourselves, and we should not increase the hatred and disputes
between ourselves and others.)
中國的明王朝，有一個著名的詩人，他也是一個著名的書法家與畫家。他的名字是唐寅。
他曾經寫過一首詩，他在這首詩中分享他對人生的感悟。
這首詩的中文只有56個字，但是這首詩蘊藏著很深刻的含意。
這首詩大概的意思如下。
我們人生所遭遇的一切事情的都有上天的意思。
我們不應該認為我們的人生會照著我們自己的計謀與心機前進。
我們只要每天都可以吃飽飯就應該要知足。
在我們人生進行得很順利的時候，我們應該要警覺地保持低調與收斂。
我們不應該每天煩惱著如何滿足自己的慾望。
我們應該要時時刻刻提醒自已不要為了得到自己的利益去損害別人。
我們應該化解我們與別人之間的仇恨與爭執。
我們不應該增加我們與別人之間的矛盾與爭執。
我們應該要看見自己的缺失與盲點，而不是只能看見別人得罪我們的地方。
這句成語的意思是我們應該化解我們之間的仇恨與爭執，我們不應該增加我們與別人之間的仇恨與爭執。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你可以原諒你的敵人並與你的敵人和平共處嗎?你是否願意主動化解你與別人之間的仇恨與爭執呢?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為唐寅詩集-嘆世之二
