His attitude is generous and natural(大模大樣)
In the late Ming Dynasty of China, there
was a famous writer named (Feng Menglong).
He wrote a collection of short stories.
There is a story in this book that is set
in the Tang Dynasty.
The protagonist of this story is called (Ma
Zhou).
This story describes his legendary life,
his journey from a poor commoner to a prominent official.
The first paragraph of the story is as
follows
He read a lot and his knowledge was very
rich.
His ideal is to use his knowledge to change
his poor life. He also hopes to use his knowledge to make more positive changes
in this society.
Because he did not have a prominent family
background or connections, he never had the chance to realise his ideals.
He fell into depression and developed a
habit of drinking.
He drinks Chinese rice wine almost every
day, and he has to drink a lot of wine to get drunk. Because he gets drunk
almost every day, he spends a lot of money buying Chinese rice wine every day.
His financial situation gets worse every
day, and he often has no money to eat, but he doesn't care because he thinks
drinking is more important than eating.
He was often short of money, and when he
was short of money, he would go to his neighbours or friends during meal time.
His friends or neighbours would invite him
to eat with them and he would support himself in this way.
He does not feel that his behaviour will
inconvenience his friends or neighbours, and he behaves generously and
naturally every time he goes to eat with his friends or neighbours.
When he's drunk, he shouts, gets emotional
and acts like he's crazy, so his friends or neighbours dislike him more and
more.
His friends and neighbours have given him
two nicknames in private: Poor Ma Zhou or Drunkard Ma Zhou.
He acted indifferently when he heard the
nicknames given to him by his friends or neighbours, and this continued until
he was about 30 years old.
This idiom means that his attitude is
generous and natural.
This idiom is also used to describe a
person's arrogant attitude.
Dear friend, how do you feel or what do you
think after listening to this story?
How do you behave when you are drunk? When
you are in a bad mood, what do you do to improve your mood?
I hope this story can give you some new
insights.
大模大樣(His attitude is generous and natural)
中國的明王朝末年，有一個著名的文學家，他的名字叫做(馮夢龍)。
他寫過一本短篇小說集。
這本書中有一個故事，故事的背景在唐王朝。
這個故事主角是名字叫做(馬周)。
這個故事寫他傳奇的一生，他從一個貧窮的平民最後成為一個顯赫的官員的過程。
這個故事的第一段的內容如下。
他念了很多他的知識非常的豐富。
他的理想是可以運用他的知識改變自己貧窮的生活，他還希望用他的知識帶給這個社會更多的正面的改變。
因為他沒有顯赫的家世背景也沒有人脈，所以他一直沒有機會被實現自已的理想。
他陷入憂鬱，他養成了酗酒的習慣。
他幾乎每天都喝中國米酒，他要喝很多酒才會喝醉，因為他幾乎每天都會喝醉，所以他每天要花很多錢去買中國米酒。
他的財務狀況一天比一天差，他常常沒有錢吃飯，但是他不在乎，因為他認為喝酒比吃飯更重要。
他常常缺錢，當他缺錢的時候他就會在吃飯的時間去找他的鄰居或是朋友。
他的朋友或鄰居就會邀請他一起吃飯，他靠這種方式維持他的生活。
他不會覺得自己的行為會打擾到他的朋友或鄰居，他每次去他的朋友或鄰居家中吃飯時，他都表現得大方又自然。
他喝醉酒之後他會大吼大叫，他的情緒會變的很亢奮，他的行為就像發瘋了一樣，所以他的朋友或鄰居愈來愈不喜歡他。
他的朋友與鄰居在私底下給他取了兩個綽號，他的朋友與鄰居稱呼他為貧窮的馬周或是酒鬼馬周。
他聽到他的朋友或鄰居給他取的綽號之後，他表現的毫不在意，他這樣的生活持續到他大概30歲左右。
這句成語的意思是他的態度大方又自然。
這句成語也被用來形容一個人的態度傲慢。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的感受或有怎樣的想法呢。
你喝醉酒之後會有怎樣的行為呢?當你心情不好的時候，你會做那些事情來調整自己的心情呢?
我希望這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為明-馮夢龍-喻世明言-第五卷-窮馬周遭際賣䭔媼
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