He feels that he is better than others(好為人師)
There is an important scholar in
Confucianism whose name is (Meng Ke).
There is a story in his book.
One day, he saw one of his students talking
with others.
He stood by and observed.
After the conversation, he told the student
in private.
I want to share one thing with you.
He said.
The main purpose of our learning knowledge
should be to enrich ourselves.
We should not make comments lightly, and we
should treat our opinions very carefully.
We must bear in mind that what each of us
knows is extremely limited.
We should maintain a humble attitude.
You are a smart student, you can quickly
absorb new knowledge after you learn it, and you are willing to share it with
others, which is a good advantage.
But you should not have the mentality to
guide others in doing things.
The premise for you to guide others is that
you think you are better than him, and only your method is right, so you guide
him.
But there is not only one solution for all
things. You should keep your mind open.
You also need to be humble. You should not
think that you are better than others.
A proud heart will hinder your progress.
The result will bring you great disaster.
The student said with embarrassment.
Thanks. I will remember these words you
said.
The meaning of this idiom is to describe a
person who likes to think of himself as a teacher and likes to guide others in
doing things.
Dear friend, what inspiration or thoughts
did you have after hearing this story.
Do you think you are better than others? Do
you often like to criticize or guide others?
I hope this story will give you some new
gains.